Safety — Home

Safety at Home in Mexico

Luckily, I don’t have any firsthand experience with how important it is to protect the safety of your home in Mexico. Judging by the way Mexicans construct their homes, there must be a real need for security. Mexican homes tend to look like Fort Knox. When I first came here, I felt threatened and reduced next to the 20-foot-high walls people build around their houses.

An architect from UNAM (Universidad Autonoma de Mexico) told me how the cultural history has influenced Mexican home design. The Spaniards brought with them an Arabic tradition where external windows were small, permitting people to shoot arrows out through them, while the interior courtyards were private family spaces. He stressed the macro-cultural factors influencing this, such as tribal warfare. I noticed the micro-cultural factors surrounding women’s roles in private and public life.

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Anyway, when these Spaniards came to Mexico to rape, plunder, steal, and control, they had good reason to reproduce architectural features that kept them safe from upset native people. Sadly, the modern situation STILL reinforces these same home safety features (not that the features themselves are bad). Once someone breaks into your house, your stuff–and possibly you and your family are toast. The police don’t or can’t keep you safe.

Prevention is the key to the safety of your home.

Physical precautions:

1. Choose a home in a neighborhood where people are out and about. This would be a not-so-rich, not-so-poor neighborhood. Some rich neighborhoods are terrifyingly lonely, with nothing but blocks and blocks of 20-foot-high-walls topped with razor wire. Who will hear you if you get into trouble? If you don’t want to be with other people, why not just stay in the US where the police are professional?

2. Mexican houses and housing complexes generally have a wall surrounding them, with a huge metal door. Only people with keys can get in through the giant door, called the “portón.” You have two good choices. You can choose a home with a private entrance. Or, if you want to live in a complex, choose one with a limited number of people who have access from the street. Complexes are nice because they often include a shared swimming pool.

3. Keep your street door (“portón”) locked, even when you are inside.

4. Ground-floor windows need to lock and have bars protecting them.

5. If your house doesn’t happen to have a wall around it, lock all windows when you leave. People will know your schedule.

6. Make sure there is no place where people could climb up, around, or into to reach unprotected windows and doors.

7. When you take a quick walk to the neighborhood store (doesn’t that sound great?!) don’t leave your door unlocked. There are always many people around. Most will protect you, but someone just might decide to steal something.

Community precautions:

1. Form networks with your neighbors by saying hello when you see them and trading little favors. This is actually our TOP safety precaution and I admit I don’t always follow the physical ones listed above.

2. Don’t let people know what you have inside.

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Safety — Children

Here is some safety advice for safe children in Mexico:

Sometimes when we are in a new place, we aren’t as attuned to the possible dangers that exist there. Luckily the safety precautions for children that you should follow in Mexico are the same ones you use back home.

Don’t let them out in the street if you’re not watching and/or are not secure in your neighborhood network.

Keep your eyes on them in public places.

For teens consider an escort in taxis.

For safety at home , teach them to lock the door to the house.

Tell them that “stranger rules” apply here.

If they go somewhere with someone else, be sure you really trust them.

Special note: Private schools here won’t release children until their parents or guardians pick them up at the door. Traffic is actually blocked on streets when long lines of parents in their cars form in front of their children’s schools. An attendant or teacher stands in the doorway with a microphone and announces the child’s name. The children—even the wee little ones—have to listen for their names and run quickly to the door where another teacher helps them to pile into their parent’s car and places their book bag in there with them. Safety is a high priority in areas where kidnapping is common.

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Safety — Cars

Car Theft
is Shockingly Common Here.

To avoid loosing car theft you…

…MUST lock it at all times.

…MUST use a steering wheel “club” at all times (when your car is parked : ) ).

…MUST have a removable stereo face and remove it at all times.

…MUST have insurance that includes theft protection.

…MUST have a locked, off-street space in which to park at night.

…SHOULD park in manned parking lots.

…SHOULD not leave anything valuable in it.

CAR THEFT, ONLY WORSE. There is a lovely park in the mountains of Morelos where cars are stolen at gun-point. I have learned through 3 second-hand stories about it and know it’s not just one story being told and re-told. In one case a child was almost taken along with the car. Families are held at gun point and forced to remove their shoes, then the car keys are taken and the car is GONE.

Sometimes in the US our cars give us a false sense of security. Here, in remote areas, they might be a liability. When you are traveling, park in established lots where there are other people around. Or find a place near a home or business. In Mexico, there really is safety in numbers.

If you haven’t read David Eidell’s wonderful article on safety in Mexico mentioned on safety through the people, I recommend it.

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An Expatriate Experience:
Inside Out or Outside In?

By Michael Shepherd

Have you ever walked down a residential street at twilight as people have turned on their lights but not yet closed their curtains? The homes look so warm, cozy and inviting that you envy these strangers their ideal lives. For that is what they appear as you pass by on the outside, looking in. On such an illusion our ex-pat life is based.

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As we have passed through various tourist areas my wife, Karin, and I have looked on the lifestyles of the locals and yearned for their apparent simplicity in the midst of splendor. It started on our honeymoon in Mexico leading us to host a Mexican exchange student a few years later which in turn lead us to visit his and a second student’s families in Mexico. The hook was set. Our experience as visitors, as honoured guests of the locals was vastly superior to that of mere tourists gawking at the quaintness of the culture.

Since then we have traveled in many countries and found something to like about each of them. We love the excitement, adventure, discovery, and romance of the foreign. We search for depth; we want to meet the real people not the jaded tourist industry personnel. Both of us are avid students; we learned and studied everywhere we went. We developed an international perspective and felt so worldly wise. Yet, by the time we got to England we struggled to keep a straight face the first time an English B & B matron asked us, “What time shall I knock you up in the morning?” Our minds were stuck in our teenage phrase for getting pregnant—”knocked up”.

Also we felt duty bound to improve attitudes towards Americans. The gap between perception and reality was first driven home to me when hosting a group of young Nigerian businessmen through Rotary International in Portland, Oregon. As they became comfortable with our open friendliness one hesitantly asked if they could see my gun. “My gun? I don’t own a gun!” They all exhaled, for they sincerely believed that they had to be extremely careful not to offend an American or he would whip out his pistol and shoot them dead. After all they had seen it many times in the cinema.

Now fast forward to our youngest child being 22 and out on his own, my 18 year old business humming along OK, and our middle age lifestyle getting boring. We do a house exchange for two weeks in England and find ourselves thinking why not live like this permanently. Back in our safe, comfortable surroundings of hometown, USA we fantasize at all the possibilities and begin researching the alternatives. Two years later we had bought a small grocery store in Ballydehob, West Cork Ireland—mortgaged to the very hilt.

Our family said we were foolish; our friends said we were brave. We replied confidently that we were following our dream but also had all the possible scenarios covered. Everything was planned to a tee. How right they were, how wrong we were.

Upon moving into our living quarters above our shop in a 200-year-old stone building in a picturesque village we discovered the glow of the fireplace off the wood paneling as seen from the street was a false front. We couldn’t get the #&@%# stove to stay lit in the coldest January the locals could remember. The shop assistant who was going to help us learn the trade didn’t show up our first morning. The Lotto organization decided our taking over was a good time to cancel the outlet. For the first year every week we learned a new and more frustrating difference between doing business in Ireland versus the States.

We also made a few social faux pas. For instance, during Karin’s first trip back to Oregon I stayed to mind the shop. Our helper was behind the counter chatting about Karin’s absence with a couple customers, John and Mary. I sauntered over to make the comment, “It certainly has made a difference in my pants!” They all froze for a long pregnant moment as I tried to figure out what I had said. Mary chuckled and asked, “Oh, how is that, Michael?” And it hit me. “My trousers that is, they have a lot more room,” I said as I thumbed the waistband to show them. Everyone laughed and changed the subject. (In Ireland pants refers to underwear, trousers to outer.)

One of our fruit and vegetable vendors, Paddy, was the flirty type. He wore tight jeans and was always making comments to and about our girls. Karin just ignored his occasional double intentres. So one fine sunny spring day Karin and I had gone to Schull for lunch. One of us had to be back at two to relieve our help. So Karin decided to stay and walk around the warm, pretty harbour with my encouragement that it would easy to get a lift back when she was ready. But when the time came, a couple cars passed without stopping and she felt very uncomfortable. So she started walking back into town and saw Paddy’s lorry. She went over to see when he would be heading back. She complained to him that no one would give her a ride. His mouth dropped open, he smiled, and said, “I’ll be glad too.” Then Karin remembered that here the common use of ride is sexual slang. Her face turned red and she back-tracked to “A lift, back to Ballydehob and my husband, who expected me an hour ago.” She sat next to the door with the young assistant in the middle.

But oh boy, did we enjoy the lifestyle. Young people complain about village life where everybody knows your every coming and going but we found it brought back our youth to know and be known. Karin would go on a “quick” errand up the street and be back 45 minutes later with all the latest gossip. On a busy day driving up the street was like being in a parade with all the waving. We loved the people, we loved the music, we loved the casualness of it all. I don’t have the ability to describe Ireland in fewer than 1,000 words. Suffice it to say, I know of no one who visited who did not immensely enjoy it.

Several friends and relatives were persuaded to holiday at our Irish dwelling. They saw that we worked hard to produce a living that would not be up to their standards back home. Yet they, as we so long ago in Mexico, recognized the joy of immersing themselves into a foreign culture.

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Both in West Cork and in Paros we heard many stories of musicians, sailors and the like who came for a short visit and never left. Thus we were not alone in having succumbed to the delights of a beautiful life compared to a prosperous one. The everyday gorgeous scenery somehow wins out over suburban buildings and traffic.

After five years of operating losses we liquidated the business, made a profit on the property and began searching for a way to turn our hard won experience into an income. Our eyes drifted South to the land of Socrates, Plato and warm sun—where truly the locals must live a charmed life. Once in Athens the first two people I asked recommended Paros. So I quit asking and went there.

Once again we are spending the profits of our earlier life while struggling to make ends meet. During my regular afternoon swim at Livadia Beach with the beautiful bodies on the sand, the attractive buildings along the harbour and the mountains as a backdrop to the warm water and sun I thought: Lord help me remember this scene when I am old and poor in a public nursing home.

The cycle continues as we share our piece of paradise by operating a small guesthouse on the island of Paros. We help our guests enjoy their holiday and gain an insight to the Greek culture. They then return to their land of hypermarkets, traffic and high-paying jobs while we spend our winter with wind, rain and ouzo at ˆ4 per litre.

Karin and I are still wandering the residential areas peeking at the bougainvillea-covered terraces wondering what it would be like to live in that house. It has to end some time, I guess. We can retire as soon as I win the lottery.

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The Day of the Dead

The Day of the Dead:
A Sensory Delight

The Day of the Dead delights all of my senses. The usual rotten stench at the entrance to the market is driven out by the scent of thousands of bundles of marigolds and burning copal. Extra stands bursting with flowers, sweets, candles, and breads shoulder out an entire lane of the bus terminal.

Shopping for the Day of the Dead

It’s fun to wander through the stands asking the old ladies how much the candles cost—choosing the candles we want by their traditional, waxy smell. We count how many dead people we will honor and buy half as many foot-long candles as we need because we always cut them in half. We get a couple extra in case we have temporarily forgotten someone.

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I love fingering the candy skulls with sequin eyes, feeling shy because I want to spend money on molded sugar lumps. We flip through the colored tissue paper, choosing designs with skulls and skeletons, deciding on the appropriate blend of colors, which must include lots of dark purple, the traditional color for the Day of the Dead.

I like the way it feels to load our arms with bundles of foot-and-a-half long marigolds of different sized blooms, lacy white accent flowers, and thick, heavy lion’s foot with stems almost as broad as my wrist and convoluted, velvety blooms as big as my fists. Carrying the flowers peeking out of their newspaper wraps, I try to keep the people in the crowd from breaking their stems. My husband limits the number of flower bundles we buy, but I always want more because I love to decorate the altar with them. There is no Day of the Dead without marigolds and velvet lion’s foot.

He chooses the breads that his grandmother always made for her Day of the Dead altars, then asks me what other pieces of bread I want to put out for my ancestors. I imagine them—fondly referred to at this time of year as “my little dead ones” (mis muertitos) enjoying the breads, candies and good smells. I choose breads with pink colored sugar on top that I know they will enjoy.

We get a small newspaper cone with a mixture of copal and other incense in it, so that our dead ones will be able to follow the smell and find their way home.

Heading home on the bus, we sit in the back and relax. I pet the velvety heads of the lion’s foot flowers. They are so solid, yet soft feeling. More like giant cat’s paws than flowers.

Preparing Our Home for the Day of the Dead

When we get home we put the flowers in buckets of water and clear out an area in the front room of our house. We find a big board and something to set it on. We iron our lacy table cloth and put out a few pieces of bread and a couple bouquets of flowers. It’s the night of the 31st, the special night reserved for children. My husband finds a toy and sets it out. He lights one candle, drips wax on the board, and sets the candle up in it. He calls out his little sister’s name.

We watch her little candle flicker as we eat our dinner and chat with our neighbors.

Building the Day of the Dead Altar

The next day, I take over. I spend over an hour on the first of November sitting on the floor in front of the altar, sorting flowers, making bouquets in liter-sized yogurt containers, then stacking the broken blooms up in front of the plastic containers so that they don’t show. I tape tissue paper flags around, artfully scatter petals, lay bread out in traditional pottery bowls, set fruit in temping piles, and place candy skulls. My husband and I walk to the store and buy pop for those ancestors who liked it. He pours a little alcohol into a shot glass. He bums a cigarette from a neighbor who smokes and lays that out for his grandfather. We include a glass of life-giving water. We don’t have any pictures of our ancestors, but we think of them the whole time we are creating their altar.

We don’t eat their treats, but munch on our own pieces of “dead people’s bread” (pan de muertos), washed down with glasses of cold milk.

My favorite step is when we take the ratty flowers, and de-petal them. We sprinkle the orange petals from the altar, right out the door, through the front yard and all of the way out the gate. Sometimes our neighbor comments that our dead people won’t have any trouble finding their way to their altar. The petals are our special Day of the Dead “Welcome Home” sign.

The Special Night Before the Day of the Dead

When the moment comes, we light our copal inside, let the smoke fill the front room, then put the bowl outside the door. The copal always burns out and I spend a lot of time trying to get the charcoal and copal into the right balance. My hair and clothes smell like smoke, which reminds me of happy nights camping with my family.

We each light the candles, setting them up in pools of their own wax. We call out each person’s name. Since there are no photos, our dead people have to use their auditory memories to know where to find us. I know my ancestors aren’t busy. Mine is the only altar for them and they have plenty of time to come in and enjoy the warm, bright glow and golds and purples of their altar.

We turn off the lights and take pictures of our creation. We sit and watch the candles flicker, enjoying the smell of the hot wax. The night is quiet and the crickets sing in the dark outside. We don’t have that many dead people, but the light is still bright enough to read by! We get sleepier and sleepier as the candles slowly burn down. The night is too magical and the whole altar too precarious to sleep. We have to keep an eye on the candles so they don’t catch the whole contraption on fire. As the candles burn down, they create so much warmth that they get wobbly on their feet. We debate blowing them out and going to bed, but just can’t bring ourselves to do it. We can almost feel our dead people there with us, enjoying the light in their honor.

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Morelos — Zapata Part 2

First Published on Mexico Connect
April 1, 2007

Travel the Zapata Route in Morelos Mexico Part 2
His Heart Stopped Beating

By Julia Taylor © Julia Taylor

Zapata’s Death

RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia TaylorAfter leaving Casa Museo de Zapata your next stop in the Zapata Route is in Chinameca where he was shot. It’s quiet at the ex-hacienda Chinameca and it’s easy to feel the sadness of knowing that Zapata died there. There are three things of interest in the small town of Chinameca.

The first is a dusty display of photos and newspaper articles. It really made an impression on me to stand there and read newspaper articles about the death of the hero. Often historical figures seem so lost in the past that we have trouble even picturing RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylorthem, but not in this case. Here was a newspaper article just like I read today, describing the events as if they had happened the day before – which was the case at the time that the article was type-set.

The displays here seemed to be old ones brought from another museum, set up on the gravel floor, and covered in plastic to protect them from the dust. Although photos are discouraged, I did quickly shoot a few, which you can see here. The sadness in Zapata’s face in photos of him when he’s older has always caught my attention. He doesn’t look angry and I wonder what kept him going in the face of RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylorsuch sadness. There is one photo where his dead body is in the arms of other men and their faces are full of shock and grief. It supports the solemn mood of Chinameca.

The apparently second-hand museum was guarded that day by an old man, sitting on top of the desk just inside the entryway. He told us a RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylordramatized version of how it was that Zapata was shot, complete with Zapata galloping for the exit, hanging down on the side of his horse to protect himself as his horse’s hooves struck echoing blows in the hard-packed earth.

Even more impressive than this descriptive version of the story was to stand in the place where he was shot. The old entrance to the hacienda has been preserved, but is outside the walls of the ex-hacienda/community center. To find this, we wandered around, trying to follow the unclear directions of the old man. There was the sound of squeaking swings RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylorcoming from a sun baked area teeming with kids and a periodic announcement over a megaphone from the local bakery that the buns were coming out of the oven at that moment, hot and delicious. Finally, we learned from a quiet 7-year-old, who guided us there that you go back out to the main street and walk along the street, keeping the walls of the ex-hacienda to your left. Soon you see an old arch-style gate with a small statue of Zapata on his horse. The horse is leaping, as if Zapata had escaped the bullets and his horse was about to charge away, safe and sound.

RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia TaylorThe back side of the gate is riddled with orange-sized pock marks. These were made by the bullets that missed Zapata. There is an older man, by the name of Andrés Trujillo, grandfather of the doting boy who led us there, who has a table set up in the shade on the inside of the gate. He sells T-shirts and photos of Zapata. I was grateful that RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylormy husband, unlike me, didn’t write the old guy off as some guy who just wants money. He struck up a conversation and we had a fun time sitting in that sad place, speculating on why so many bullets missed their mark and also singing along with grandfather Don Andrés as he shared some songs that he’d written about the death of Zapata. If you RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylorpurchase something from Don Andrés he’ll give you the photo copies of his songs for free. His personal theory on the wayward bullet holes is that most of the guys ordered to shoot Zapata in the back really didn’t want to hit him and aimed high instead.

If you have the time, climb the hill overlooking the RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylorex-hacienda. Zapata’s old look out was on this hill at a place called “la piedra encimada” (the rock on top of another). It’s the hill that you see as you are looking out the gate through which Zapata couldn’t exit. You follow the road that heads straight away from the gate in the direction that the statue is facing until you find your way to theRutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylor summit. You can see for miles around and you’ll know why Zapata had his lookout there. You can imagine him standing there, his trusted men nearby, heart beating steadily in his chest.

Every General Must Have His Cuartel: Museum Ex-Cuartel de Zapata

The last stop in this route is in Tlaltizapán where General RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia TaylorZapata had his military base from 1914 to 1918. The ex-cuartel as it is now called is a cool, quiet, relaxing museum. For me the most imagination-catching display is that of the clothing Emiliano Zapata was wearing when he was killed. I stood for a long time trying to imagine how big he was. The pants don’t look very large, but since they were RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylortight-fitting maybe they trick the eye. Still, it would be fitting that this Mexican hero be pint-sized like so many of his countrymen. True to classic Mexican museum style, no real explanation, least of all his height and weight, is posted near the clothes.

It’s all up to the imagination and I found myself conducting RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylormy own, very amateur forensic analysis. The stains — which I had to conclude were made by his very blood — on the long underwear are poignant. Just below the right waistband in the back of both the pants and the long underwear, there is a tiny, round hole. I’ve never seen a bullet hole in clothing, but it appears that he was shot in the back. Therefore, RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylormy personal forensic analysis rules out the old man in Chinameca’s version of the story. You’ll have to come see for yourself.

As I was observing the display of Zapata’s short bed, proteted by a gauzy mosquito net and wondering if Zapata really had such a lovely, lacey, hand-made pillowcase and RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylorcoverlet, recorded Mariachi music began to drift in, followed by the sounds of rhythmically tapping shoes. Community members were practicing folkloric dance in the shady courtyard of the museum. I thought that Zapata would probably be glad that this generation can use his ex-cuartel as a place to practice an art form so Mexican. Besides, Don Lucino told me that he liked music.

When you visit this museum, make sure that you walk all of the way to the back of the grounds to see the oven built by Zapata’s men for smelting silver into coins. They needed money and, being practical RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia TaylorMexicans, made their own. You can still see the soot staining the bricks.

Sugar Cane Ash Storm

On our way to Zacatepec, after completing the Zapata Route we drove through an ash storm. Twisted sheets of carbonized sugar cane leaves were drifting down all around us, thick and hushed as a snow RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylorstorm. We stopped the car so that I could try to get a picture of this phenomenon which happens periodically in areas surrounding sugar cane plantations during the time that they are burned to remove their knife-like leaves and prepare the cane for transport to the factory. I was out, trooping around, taking everything in like Mexicans in the north experiencing their first snowstorm.

As I was trying to get a representative photo of this very un-photogenic event I was aware of the nearby sugar factory. Smoke was rushing out of its smokestacks and it was producing a RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylorsucking whir as the people inside processed the sugar. I imagined that in their day, Zapata and his men would have hated to see the ashes falling and hear the sounds of the sugar industry which was gobbling up the heart of their land. Now the land is in the hands of the people and they make money on the sugar industry, as Zapata wanted.

Travel the Zapata Route in Morelos MexicoDriving Directions

RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia TaylorStop 1: Museo Casa de Zapata in Anenecuilco
Cost: 30 pesos. Open Tuesday through Sunday.
Anenecuilco is just a few kilometers south of Cuautla on the highway that leads to Ayala. If you are driving, you will be glad that the entire Ruta de Zapata is well marked with blue signs. To follow these signs through downtown RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia TaylorCuautla, keep your eyes peeled for a sign in a traffic island in the middle of a “Y.” At this “Y” you will bear right. Next, at 2 de Marzo you will be forced to take a right due to a transformation into a one way street. Next, take a left onto Dalias Matamoros (which will turn into the highway to Ayala). You will immediately see Parque de la Revolucion RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia Taylorwith a large statue of Zapata to your right. Don’t miss this because he is buried there. You will go under a set of pointed arches that read, “Bienvenidos a la Tierra del Jefe” (Welcome to the land of the boss). Let the sugar cane growing along the highway make you think of the days when Emiliano Zapata rode the area on his horse. In less than 6 kilometers you will see a sign to turn right at a small plaza with a gold colored statue. This is Anenecuilco. (It has been 96 years since the signing of the Plan de Ayala and the town is still very small. Imagine how it must have been when Zapata lived there.) RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia TaylorOn that road, you will cross a bridge, go up a hill and turn left at a “T” (yes, there’s a sign!). The museum will be on your right and unmistakable with an open fence of metal tubes and the soaring while tent that protects Zapata’s house.
Stop 2: Chinameca where Zapata was killed
Cost: voluntary donation
How to get there: Head south from Anenecuilco, through Ayala and Moyotepec. At Moyotepec, bear left at the “Y” and keep heading south. Immediately after San Rafeal de Zaragoza, take the left toward San Juan Chinameca. RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia TaylorThis left is well marked with a “Ruta de Zapata” sign. Before you get to Chinameca you will go through a 4-way stop. Don’t turn. After the 4-way stop, you will go up a hill into Chinameca. The museum is well labeled and is almost the first thing you see upon arriving in Chinameca.

Stop 3: Museum Ex-Cuartel de Zapata
RutadeZapataTravelMorelos Copyright 2007 Julia TaylorCost: 30 pesos open Tuesday through Sunday
How to get there: From Chinameca, head back down the hill the way you came. At the “Y,” bear left toward Tlaltizapan, rather than back north toward Anenecuilco. Once in town, follow the blue “Ruta de Zapata” signs.

How to get home:
If you are staying in Cuaulta, follow signs to Tempila Nuevo, then to Cuautla. If you are staying in Cuernavaca, follow signs to Zacatepec, then to Cuernvaca. You can choose to take the faster toll road for about 50 pesos.

Links to Additional information:
Aerial view of Museum in Anenecuilco. http://www.flashearth.com/?lat=18.776615&lon=-98.986664&z=18.5&r=0&src=ggl

Interview (in Spanish) of Lucino Luna Dominguez http://www.yovivoenmorelos.com.mx/articulo.php?idArticulo=NzI%3D

The cover of one of Don Lucino’s books coauthored with Efraín Escarpulli Límon
http://www.bibliotecas.tv/zapata/bibliografia/indices/
anenecuilco_desconocido.html

Morelos — Zapata Part 1

First Published on Mexico Connect
March 1, 2007

Travel the Zapata Route in Morelos Mexico Part 1The Land Was in His Heart

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano Zapata

By Julia Taylor

At the heart of liberty is land. Emiliano Zapata knew this better than anyone; his slogan was “Tierra y Libertad!” (Land and Liberty!) He was born in the heart of the state of Morelos and today you can travel la Ruta de Zapata copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano Zapata(The Zapata Route). In the course of one day you can learn about Emiliano Zapata and his fight against the exploitation of his people in the best way to do that – by moving through his land.

Traveling through his home area you can see both the open spaces through which he rode and the irrigated sugar cane fields that are copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano Zapatastill in production today. If you can speak Spanish, you will talk to the people who still inhabit his land, living their daily lives, preserving their history, and preparing their message for future generations. You will come away knowing that he was a real man, of great strength, determination, and ideals, copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano Zapatawho lived his life as a Mexican; defining himself between the extremes of poverty and Spanish class-ism; excelling in horsemanship, leadership, and just as macho as they come.

Emiliano Zapata a Powerful Force

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataOn August 8, 1879, in the middle of the rainy season, a powerful force came into the world in the usual way. Gabriel Zapata and his wife Cleofas Salazar named him Emiliano Zapata Salazar. He was the ninth of ten children and grew up learning the ways of farming corn and dry season watermelons as well as raising cattle and horses, in the scrub forests that surrounded his home in Anenecuilco, Morelos. His family was not rich. He lived with them in a two room adobe house and dressed in the traditional white manta clothing. Actually, though, he was quite lucky. His father owned land and the family was able to make a living without getting sucked into debt slavery on the sugar plantations (haciendas) which were increasingly being given control over the land in the regions surrounding his home town.

Emiliano Zapata grew into an expert horseman and dressed in the tight legged trousers, suit coat and vest of a rich man as soon as he could afford it. In the museum in Anenecuilco there is a story about him putting real coins onto his first pair of suit pants. Emiliano was trusted by the people of Anenecuilco and at age 30 (in 1909 one year before the start of the revolution) he was elected into a leadership role by his community. From this point on he never backed down from his fight to return the land to the people.

Sometimes this can seem like ancient history, but it’s not. Our grandparents could have known Zapata.

Zapata’s Home and Another Powerful Force

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataIn Anenecuilco, Morelos you can see the walls that sheltered Emiliano and his family as he was growing up. Their solid adobe blocks give off a comforting stillness from copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano Zapatabeneath a soaring white tent within the grounds of the Museo Casa de Zapata (House of Zapata Museum). This is the first thing that you will see as you pass through the gates at the entryway to the museum. In the air there is a light touch of the smell of cattle, just as there would have been when Zapata walked there.

The curator of this museum, Lucino Luna Dominguez is another powerful force born in Anenecuilco, and I found him watering the museum’s small botanical garden. The groundskeeper had a problem with his eyes and Don Lucino had volunteered to take over the watering for the day. He welcomed me calmly and within a few moments of talking to him, I knew that the museum was his passion. He’s been curator for 13 years now and is personally involved in its growth as well as its relationship with the community of Anenecuilco.

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataOn the Sunday that we visited there was a group of young people painting at easels set up in the shade of a tree in what used to be Zapata’s “yard.” Their presence there wasn’t coincidental; they were there because of Don Lucino’s vision of what the museum is and can become for his community. He explained to me that they were painting illustrations of local legends as part of a project to create a book of Anenecuilco’s traditional legends. He tells young people the legends and it’s their job to paint events in each one. This is just how Don Lucino thinks. He has this uncanny understanding of how to make history valuable in the present for people of all ages.

He says that the town of Anenecuilco is fighting to show the world the unknown Emiliano Zapata. During my visit he shared some details over which he disagrees with the standard historical account of Emiliano Zapata. These variants are based upon his own research of documents stored by the church and interviews he has conducted with the elders of Anencuilco. One such detail is the number of men who accompanied Zapata and his brother as they first rode out to engage in armed conflict. He says that at that time there were 300 people in the small town and that 25 men left that day. Apparently, the “official” version says that only 3 rode out. This would be an insulting inaccuracy to the now old people who, as children, watched the men gather and mount up.

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataAs we stood in the garden, the newly rebuilt, L-shaped museum was to our right and behind us. Everything inside is carefully planned. The air is naturally cool. The lights are low with the displays illuminated by carefully designed lighting. You weave through loosely separated “rooms,” which first describe the people of Anenecuilco and their horrendous loss of land, water, and freedom to the sugar plantations, called haciendas. Next, Emiliano’s history and life is described within this context.

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataThe contextualization was one of the two things that really impressed me about the museum. So many museums in Mexico are a series of items with signs underneath that leave the reader with more questions than answers (even if you read Spanish perfectly). I’ve often joked about the state-the-obvious style of Mexican museums. You are looking at an ancient piece of pottery with some black designs painted on it and the sign says, “Pre-Columbian pottery with black designs typical of this region.” Museo Casa de Zapata doesn’t fall into this trap.

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataAs you study items from the era and old photos of Zapata you are carried along by relaxing guitar music which forms part of a movie that you see in the second to last room. Standing in the same room as Zapata’s guns and his saddle you watch this movie, projected onto a curved, white wall with time advance scenes using historical and current photos, an aerial shot of the town and real people’s voices. The movie was made by El Grupo Mundo with the help of SECTUR (the state tourism department). Don Lucino took the filmmakers out to get the shots they needed for the film and, even though he doesn’t say it, I think he had more than that to do with the content.

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataDon Lucino has made it an important part of his mission to gather and preserve items belonging to Emiliano Zapata and his men. He goes personally to people, many of them elders, and explains to them how important their items are in preserving the story of Zapata and Anenecuilco; that they will last forever, long after we have departed this life. He is particularly glad to have the .30.30 carried by Zapata on that first day, donated to the museum by Marcos Manuel Suárez Gérard, the secretary of tourism. He also has his saddle mounted on a tall stand for all to see (also donated by Marcos Manuel Suárez Gérard). I almost talked him into letting me take a picture of him resting his hand on this saddle to accompany this article, but he decided to abide by the no-flash rule in order to protect it and I was without a tripod.

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataDon Lucino had come inside to tell a little about the items in the museum. We were talking and two little children had brought their dump truck inside to play in the open area in front of the curved screen. He stopped talking to say, “Hey kids, go play in the hallway outside, please.” The understanding, gentle tone of his voice impressed me. He wasn’t “the man in charge,” he was a kind adult who wants everyone to be comfortable in his museum. He is skilled at teaching people and soon had a small audience looking with appreciative glances at the artifacts and asking questions. He uses a story-telling style that is special to the oral tradition of Mexican country people, which you have to listen to fully appreciate.

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataThe guitar music made my experience in the main part of the museum relaxed and pleasant, but my favorite room in the museum is the last one. It is a small theater, with benches, and black curtains keeping the ambient light out. There is a touch-screen monitor on the wall where you select the movie you would like to see. When I walked in, there were elders talking about what they remembered about Zapata. The image is about 8 feet by 10 feet and large enough to relax and watch. My favorite was the clip of Zapata’s step-daughter, now probably in her 70s. She describes herself as his daughter’s sister and shows us a photo of him. The scene was shot in an outdoor kitchen of a tiny Mexican house. Just like Don Lucino, she’s the real thing.

copyright Julia Taylor 2007: Ruta de Emiliano ZapataI asked Don Lucino how he became interested in Emiliano Zapata and he told me that when his grandfather Fidel Luna Franco took him to work with him, he would tell him the stories of his days with Zapata. Mr. Luna Franco planted his fields and fought along side of Emiliano Zapata. Through his grandfather’s oral tradition Don Lucino was kept in touch with these experiences. To Don Lucino, Emiliano Zapata is not just a historical figure; he is a real man who lived a real life.

Not only does Casa Museo de Zapata teach us about the history of Emiliano Zapata, thanks to Don Lucino Luna Dominguez, it teaches us about history itself. What is history? Who should tell it? What form should history take? Should it be oral, written, or pictorial? How does history affect us in our daily lives?

Next month on Mexico Connect: Read Travel the Zapata Route in Morelos Mexico Part 2 – His Heart Stopped Beating, along with full driving directions so that you too can retrace the Zapata Route.