Duct Tape in Mexico

I come from the land of duct tape. Where I come from there are even songs about things being held together by duct tape. Once, as a girl, I tried to make an above ground swimming pool with black plastic, plywood, and duct tape.

The other day my sister was visiting from up north and she saw that the backrest on my son’s high chair was splitting open.

“You probably should put duct tape on that,” she suggested.

I realized at that moment that it’s been years since I’ve seen duct tape. Ever since I used the “spare” strip on my water bottle after we moved here 6 years ago, I haven’t had any in my house. In fact, no one has duct tape in Mexico, rusted wire or glue being the preferred repair tools here.

Then, today in the hardware section of the grocery store I saw a small roll of silver tape. I looked closer and realized that it even had the little strings running horizontally and vertically through it. Yes, it was duct tape.

Guess what it was named. Cinta Americana (American Tape), of course.

Dancing Children

One of the things that I love about Mexico is that people of all ages interact with each other on a daily basis. My landlord has a son, daughter-in-law, and niece visiting him and his granddaughter this evening for dinner. His daughter-in-law is cooking dinner and she and the granddaughter just went past our gate, headed to the store for tortillas, where they took the time to stop and talk to my little son who is outside.

“Come here little beautiful.” They called.

“Say hi. How are you?” they crooned as they reached out to him through the fence.

learning to danceMeanwhile, the niece is teaching the five and two-year olds, who live next door, to dance the waltz. The three of them have flowers on their heads and she is telling them how to hold their hands and to move their feet. “Watch the steps,” she is saying.

They don’t forget about my son, who is watching through the fence. Sometimes they call him by name and tell him to pay attention. If he falls down, they go to the fence and encourage him to get up. He holds on to the fence and giggles along with them.

Live or Retire in Mexico Expatriate Excellence Quiz

Quiz:
To Live or Retire in Mexico or Not
That is The Question

Is Mexico right for me?

Not everyone should live or retire in Mexico.

Now available only on www.home-sweet-mexico.com! A quick two-part quiz that will help you to find out if you are among the few, the brave, the crazy who might like it here.

Live or Retire in Mexico Expatriate Excellence Quiz

In Part One below we will analyze your personality to see if you are a good fit to live or retire in Mexico.

Part One:

Which of the following adjectives describe you? Choose all that fit your personality. We suggest that you write them down on a piece of paper so that you don’t forget your answers.

Flexible
Patient
Type “A”
Calm
Adventurous
Relaxed
A “planner”
Control freak
Positive
Capable
Dramatic
Pessimistic
Hard working
Picky
Friendly
Resourceful
Safety conscious

In Part Two we will analyze your coping style to see if living or retiring in Mexico would be a good fit for you. Again, we recommend that you note your answers on a piece of paper.

Part Two:

1. When you live or retire in Mexico will you be independently wealthy or if not, do you like working six days a week?

2. Would you agree with the statement, “It has to be my way or the highway?”

3. Do you often say, “Oh, however it works out is fine with me”?

4. Do you have to have your favorite brand of snack food (as in, there are no substitutes for your treat)?

5. Are occasional cold showers alright with you?

6. Can you take it in stride when the telephone company changes your service without telling you, then charges you a fee to cancel the new service?

7. Once you live or retire in Mexico, if the washing machine delivery man calls to say that he’ll be there in about 15 minutes then comes 5 hours later will you blow a gasket?

8. Can you easily navigate uneven surfaces?

Now it’s time to score your personal quiz.

The above survey is “scientifically” designed to help you determine if you would like to live or retire in Mexico and is completely serious—of course—but you can check out this other silly quiz for a good belly laugh.

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Retire in Mexico: Health Care

Retirement in Mexico
and Health Care

As you move toward your goal of retirement in Mexico, it’s helpful to

What about Mexico’s famous pharmacies?

understand the health care “system.” I put “system” in quotes because it’s not as systematic as in the U.S. and definitely not as systematic as in Canada, which has its advantages and disadvantages.

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I’ll start by describing the basics of how people who live in Mexico access health care services and branch from there into specific topics. You can decide how you might fit into the picture once you retire in Mexico. Having a general picture of how it all works will help you to make a smooth transition and to take advantage of the advantages while softening your exposure to the disadvantages.
Mexico has two different types of health care, which are referred to as private (particular) and public (seguro).  You can decide which you want to participate in when you live or retire in Mexico.

Private vs. Public Health Care in Mexico

Public

There are two major groups in the public health care system. They are IMSS (Instituto Mexicano del Seguro Soccial or Mexican Social Security Institute) which is available to many people working at private institutions as well as immigrants to Mexico –including retired people — and ISSSTE (Instituto de Seguridad y Servicio Sociales de los Trabajadores or Security and Social Services Institute for Workers) which is available to employees who work for the state and other public institutions.

The rest of this section has been moved to the all new Second Edition of Mexico: The Trick is Living Here.  

Private Doctors

Private health care in Mexico can be terrible or it can be wonderful. It depends on what you make of it. When you retire in Mexico you could have the kind of personalized, professional care that you can only dream of in Canada or at your HMO in the U.S.

On a service for service basis, the cost of care in Mexico is much lower than in the U.S. That’s the good news. The bad news is that you have to pay for it out of pocket (unless you opt to pay for health insurance), which can be quite expensive if you are earning in pesos.

Private health care in Mexico isn’t a formal system at all. Doctors….

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Finding a Doctor You Can Communicate with in English

Due to their common experiences, other expatriates are generally the best people to ask for referrals. Of course, when you first live or retire in Mexico, you might not know anyone, so you could start with the yellow pages under “medicos” (and there are tons; over 60 pages in the Cuernavaca yellow pages!). Those who speak English list that in their advertisement. Another good option is to see if there is a Newcomers club in your town and ask them for a referral. You can also put a post up on an expatriate forum such as Expat Focus. Once you find a professional, honest doctor then they can become an excellent resource for referrals to specialists in other fields.

If you don’t like the first doctor you find, try another. I’ve gone to some doctors based on referrals and felt like they were just stringing me along to get me to come back and pay them more money. I’ve also found a couple of doctors who are professional, helpful, and give help over the phone without charging.

I don’t think that it’s necessarily true that more expensive doctors are always better, but so far I’ve had better experiences with the doctors that charge more. One of my favorite doctors is also an expatriate from the United States (and she charges on the higher end of the scale). 

The Cost of Private Doctors in Mexico

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Note: There are also private hospitals in Mexico, which work differently than those in the U.S. and Canada.

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Safety — Services

Safety Services:
Forget 911

When you move to Mexico, look at the front of your (or someone else’s if you don’t have yours yet) phone book for emergency phone numbers and write them down in a place you can easily find them.

There are a lot of them: one or two for each safety service.

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Safety — Prevention

Safety in Mexico:
Focus on Prevention

The more you network with the people around you, the more safety you will enjoy in Mexico. Being in contact with your neighbors will prevent crime. In fact, one of the reasons for favor relationships is mutual security. Here in Mexico, neighbors do actually know and watch out for each other. Also, if you pick the right neighborhood, people know who should and should not be around your house.

Also, if something does happen, they can offer support, advice, and important connections in navigating through unfamiliar legal issues.

Most people here are safety conscious—at least in a neighborhood block-watch kind of way. It’s not that they wouldn’t drive without a seatbelt or hold a lit firecracker in their hand; that’s a different kind of safety that Mexicans don’t seem to believe in.

When you are outside of your neighborhood network, use the old rule of “safety in numbers” to protect yourself. Don’t go off alone.

When you first move to Mexico, you should get onto the website of the US consulate nearest you and register with them.

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Safety — Police Tragedies

If the Mexican Police Aren’t Safe…
how can they provide safety to the people?

One of the most difficult tragedies to witness on TV in 2005 was the beating death of two investigators in Mexico City. They were dressed in plain clothes, supposedly investigating a drug distribution center in a neighborhood. The people in the neighborhood became convinced that they were kidnappers and surrounded and attacked them. They were beaten to death, while everyone watched it on TV. TV and newspaper reporters were able to interview them and film them, including from a helicopter as they lay dying, surrounded by an angry mob. The reporters ran to tell police officers on nearby streets, but no one arrived for hours. Both men died.

The media questioned the ice-age slowness of the police response. I questioned the departmental leadership that sent them into this neighborhood without back-up in the first place. The reputation of police officers as corrupt kidnappers brought harm to these presumably innocent men. My heart went out to the men and women who have such an unprofessional, disrespectful, dangerous working environment.

If the police themselves aren’t safe, how can the citizens be safe?

Since living in Cuernavaca, I have heard of 4 kidnappings!  Two of them happened to people that I’ve actually met, one to the father of one of the students at my school and the last to a student at the school of a friend. I’ve also heard of a murder committed by someone’s boyfriend.  Most recently, a student at my school and his father were shot to death in their home by someone who broke in, apparently to steal. 

That’s 6 major crimes in three years. Five more than I had heard of in my entire life living in the Pacific Northwest! When I think about these stories, I feel a lot less safe than when I was at home.

Part of the fear with kidnappings is that the police have been involved. If someone in my family were kidnapped, I’m not sure that I would feel safe calling the police. It’s sad but true; the police don’t provide a sense of safety in Mexico. 

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Safety — Police

Safety: No Thanks to the Police

POLICE HAVE LITTLE TO DO WITH CREATING A SENSE OF SAFETY IN MEXICO. There are tons of different police in Mexico, and even Mexicans don’t seem to understand them. Here is a breakdown that might help you out.

TRAFFIC POLICE (POLICÍA DE TRÁNSITO) The police with whom you are likely to have the most contact are the traffic police. Blatant corruption and lack of training, and rock bottom salaries among traffic police reduces the expectation of safety in Mexico. These are the guys who stop you when you are driving, invent an infraction, and ask for a bribe.

They often set up road blocks on highways between two larger cities. At these road blocks, they flag you down and invent an infraction. Common belief says that they can confiscate your car and keep it at their station. This gives them the power to extract a bribe from you. If you challenge the validity of the infraction that they have invented, they remind you that they can keep your car while you file your complaint and wait for a judge to decide in your favor. Normally people don’t refuse the bribe while on a trip out of town. One Mexican I know did. He told his wife to pack up their 6-month-old baby and their things: they were going to take a bus. The officer let them go.

If you aren’t brave enough to call their bluff while out of town, the smartest thing you can do before setting out on an inter-city trip is to put 50 pesos in your pocket, remove all of your cash from your wallet, and hide it. If a police officer flags you down and begins to give you a ticket (this is how they open the topic of the bribe), you can say that all you have is 50 pesos.

On the other hand, if you want to fight corruption, you can definitely do it while inside your home city. In Cuernavaca, the police generally ask for 100 to 200 pesos, depending on the infraction committed. Usually people give around 50 pesos per bribe. One day my husband was stopped for not wearing his seat belt. The officer told him that he would have to go pay a 200 peso ticket at the police department, implying that it might be better to make a counter offer, and end the whole situation right there on the street. Well, my husband told him that he wouldn’t participate in corruption and to go ahead and write up the ticket. Much to his surprise when he went to pay the ticket the service was quick and friendly and best of all, the ticket was only 50 pesos!

FEDERAL POLICE (POLICÍA JUDICIAL) These men decrease my feeling of safety whenever they are around. They dress in black and ride around in the backs of official pick-up trucks, carrying large weapons. They deal with big things like shootings. They are the muscle and are famous for having too much testosterone. Do not talk to these men.

METROPOLITAN POLICE (POLICÍA METROPOLITANA, also called POLICÍA PREVENTIVA) This is a group of police hired by each city. We have no idea what they prevent–could it be safety itself? They also often direct traffic and fall under the description of traffic police above.

FEDERAL HIGHWAY POLICE (POLICÍA FEDERAL DE CAMINOS) These guys can stop you anywhere on federal roads. They usually check for bad driving and vehicles carrying loads. They won’t stop on smaller roads because those are state jurisdiction.

STATE POLICE These guys can stop you on smaller roads. They also check for unsafe driving and loads.

THE ARMY These guys are not police, but are included here because sometimes they have roadside checkpoints, particularly in “wild” places like Chiapas. They are looking for drug traffickers. They are mostly around 18 years old and dressed all in green. They are considered honest and not a threat to safety.

Generally they just flag you on by. Sometimes they stop buses and check the passengers’ documents to be sure they are in Mexico legally and don’t show whatever signs drug traffickers show. Sometimes this operation includes getting all of the men off of the bus for a more thorough “inspection.” They might let the bus drive on without one of its passengers, if they want to question the person more. I doubt they would do that to someone from North America.

Occasionally, there are “judiciales” (see above) in black or plain clothes mixed in with the army boys. Since they are federal police, they can handle all sorts of illegal activity. Officially, they are looking for drugs or maybe illegal immigrants. Unofficially, they are looking for victims. If they think they can take advantage of someone they will make up some excuse about they’re ID not being official or whatever they can cook up on the spot. If the person looks nervous, they can get them down off of the bus, or out of their car and stick them for a bribe.

You increase your safety by not acting like a victim. My husband and I have noticed that avoiding eye contact with them is a good idea. Also, if they do question you, be firm about your documents and reasons for being where you are.

TOURIST POLICE Let’s end this page on a positive note. These guys are there to help you. Not all cities have them, but those with a large population of tourists do. I’ve seen them in Mexico City at a parade. An officer stepped in front the crowd to protect the people from an out of control horse that couldn’t stop on the pavement. This officer’s ankle was broken in the line of duty and he was carried into the crew transport van on a stretcher.

Another tourist police officer helped my husband and me when a scooter rental guy on Isla de las Mujeres wouldn’t give us our money back even though the scooter broke down twice and left us stranded on the opposite side of the island. Tourist Police do increase safety.

If you can handle frightening news, read about how police themselves lack safety.

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Safety — Kidnapping

The absolute,
number one,
most nightmare-inducing safety issue in Mexico
is kidnapping.

And it happens. I met someone who was a victim and have heard 4 second-hand, but too close for comfort stories. A friend who knows various extremely rich people in Cuernavaca tells me that they have body guards. They have to be concerned about their safety. Morelos has one of the highest rates of kidnappings in Mexico. There are a lot of rich people here.

A former governor of Morelos was supposedly even involved! Mexico City also has a very high rate of kidnappings and shorter go-to-a-cash-machine-nappings. Other areas throughout Mexico also experience them. The police and judicial system have been fighting this crime, and it has reduced in frequency. If this is better, I’d hate to see worse!

The good news for us foreigners is that mostly Mexicans are targeted. Though, one English businessman was killed last year in a kidnapping. The good news for parents is that mostly adults (or young adults) are targeted. We are also talking about extremely rich people. One TV star was kidnapped and told his story in a special interview on TV.

As with rapists, one of the perpetrators is usually someone relatively close to the victim. Extended family members sometimes give the needed information. To top it all off, the police might be involved. It seems that survivors usually come home AFTER the demanded payment has been made.

So…

Don’t look and act too rich.

Don’t tell ANYBODY how much money you have.

Don’t tell ANYBODY if you sell a large property.

Change your daily habits regularly so that it isn’t easy to grab you on your daily walk.

Register with the US consulate nearest you. The contact information is online.

Do the things above, then try not to worry about your safety. It’s hard, but life is risky anyways.

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